6 Mar 2009

Tributes

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1. Robbie, you are an amazing man. I remember so many things about the time i have known you. As an honourary member of the ‘Beaumont Boys’, each and every one of you means so much to me, like brothers. I always felt responsible for you all on nights out and making sure you were all ok. Every time one of you achieves something, it makes me feel proud. What you and Jase achieved in the business world was incredible. You have an amazing company and have done so well, but remained so humble about it all. (Even if it did all stem from a student loan!) Coming up to liverpool to see you was always such an event! I remember driving up to you for four and a half hours after a personal training session and not being able to get out of the car after the drive because my legs had seized up!! You gave up your bed for us that night so we didnt have to sleep on the floor-much appreciated! We last saw you only a few weeks ago, when you bought a present for Henry after christmas. It was a drill and digger set. I tried to tell you how much henry was going to love that pressie, it couldnt have been any better. He plays with it practically every day and drills holes in my walls and wallpaper! You told us all about your sister and her work as a doctor and how proud you were, even though you didnt understand anything about it! My mum and sister met you for the first time that day, and both told me how gentle, intelligent and inspirational you were. You were so proud of the work you had done and what you had planned for the rest of the year. We made a promise to come and see you later in the year in Liverpool. You told us to bring the kids and youd find things for us all to do. That says so much about you. I could sit here and write so many, many other things about you and how much you gave us as a friend. Camden, Eamesys, house parties, when Neil split his jeans in your front room at wynchlands crescent, Davids stag do, trying to fit you, Jase and Paps in the back seat of my Fiat Uno!
   Robbie, David and I can’t believe you’re gone and refuse to believe we will never see you again. You will never know how much we thought of you and how proud we were to know you and have you as our friend. You may be gone from our lives, but will never leave our hearts. We miss you so much big man xxxxxxxx

    
   

   Hayley Gilbert

   March 6th, 2009 at 4:24 pmpermalink

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   Rob you did more in your shortened dawn than most of us can dream. I had the honour and privilege to go on many journeys, home and away, with you and the crew. Last year alone we took Chamonix, The Big Chill, Ibiza, New Year and Estonia. I will always treasure moments like when you sat with Jas, Steve, Daz, Jamie and myself in that Bavarian Beer for seven solid hours in Tallinn, tears of laughter rolling down our cheeks. Different tears roll now. But amongst all our sadness, there will always be the remembrance of good times, best times. We walk taller for knowing you. From the unbeatable eight year old goal keeper, to the unbeatable twenty nine year old entrepreneur. Always the same. Always our Rob. Rest easy big guy.

    
   

   Chris Fenn

   March 6th, 2009 at 4:25 pmpermalink

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   there are two people in this world and Rob you where the meaning of sucsess, weather it was getting Coley into peach coz the bouncer was avin none of it or making a massive buisness Rob and Jas are an inspiration to us all. always new how to say the right thing to get the best out of people-genuine nice guy and will never be forgot or replaced
   one for the boyz-remember after clubbin me(shmee) Rob and Tommy Gun recovering at mine and the room almost erupting in fire when the sun reflected onto the mattress i was kipping on; Robs input ’smell something burning, SHMEE your bed’
   cheers for all the wonderful time i spent with you bruv-LUV U BIGMAN
   one of the last times i spoke to Rob was when we where telling eachother ‘30 this year, what we gunna do?’
   i am going to organise an outing for his birthday, 11th of september if anyone wants to give me some idea

   RIP my friend

    
   

   Michael Harvey

   March 6th, 2009 at 4:25 pmpermalink

4. It was an absolute pleasure to work for Rob. As an employer, Rob always spoke to you as a friend more than a colleague, and I enjoyed his company and hilarious sense of humour. I was lucky enough to spend time with Rob both in and outside of work, and I know I speak for everyone when I say he will be truely missed. Rest in Peace.

    
   

   Michael Hide

   March 6th, 2009 at 4:26 pmpermalink

5. The last time I saw Robbie was at a mutual friend’s wedding, we spoke briefly, I remember his gentle manner, his modesty and the quiet confidence he exuded. Few carry success with the grace that Robbie did and I send all those close to him my sincere condolences.

   Alex Di Francesco

    
   

   Alex Di Francesco

   March 6th, 2009 at 4:26 pmpermalink

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   I still cannot believe what has happened……I had the pleasure of working for Rob and Jason for nearly 2 years at Dolphin Music and this tragic news has hit me hard so i cannot begin to imagine how Rob and Jasons family are feeling right now.

   Rob was such a gentleman in every meaning of the word always with a smile on his face! He was not only a boss to everyone at Dolphin Music but he was everyones friend! He was such a hardworker and had everything going for him, he achieved more in his life at the young age of 29 that any of us could begin to dream of!

   I am truely devastated and still in shock that Rob has been taken away from us….

   Rob was such a genuine, down to earth guy and i will miss him alot as he was not just my boss but my friend!

   My thoughts are with Robs family at this such awful time…..

   R.I.P Rob you are a true gent who did not deserve to be taken so soon in life! I will miss you so much and just glad i got to give you a hug the last time i seen you. Sleeptight and godbless x X x X x

    
   

   Stephanie Thomas

   March 6th, 2009 at 4:26 pmpermalink

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   My last vivid memory of Robbie was walking (me waddling) down our street together in Gateshead when I was heavily pregnant. We’d just been for chinese food with Nick and Jason. It was a beautiful summer evening and we were having a lovely time. Robbie and I didn’t have many deep and meaningful conversations but as we strolled along he said some of the nicest things about how exciting being a parent must be and what a momentous occasion it would be when we finally met him / her (Isabel born 18/08/09). He really connected to how I was feeling about her arrival and made me feel even more proud and excited about the changes that were to come. Robbie had a real gift for making people feel special and listened to.

   For me, I can’t think of Robbie without thinking of Jason as well.

   Torvill and Dean, Fred and Ginger, Batman and Robin, The Blues Brothers, Rodney and Del Boy…none of these famous duos have got anything on Robs and Jason. They achieved so much in so little time. Whilst the rest of us were dossing in bed or worse at university those two founded and grew their business. Robbie and Jason perfectly complemented each other and the support and trust between them was always evident as business partners but more importantly as friends.

   It is a tragedy that so many people who loved Robbie have lost him. You will be greatly missed Rob.

   Maria Thrall

    
   

   Maria Thrall

   March 6th, 2009 at 4:26 pmpermalink

8. After working with him for 9 months and only speaking to him Thursday just gone I am in total shock. Rob had a vision many struggle to grasp and he was always moving forward. I feel privileged to have worked with him and my thoughts are with his family. Dolphin music will never be the same again.

   R.I.P Rob

    
   

   Jack Gleeson

   March 6th, 2009 at 4:27 pmpermalink

9. I have only spent two days during that grievous week-end with Rob, and I did not know him before that, but I wanted to share the souvenir I have of a truly generous man.

   He and Jason were coordinating the arrivals at the airport and the transport to Verbier of a group of participants to our stay. I have to say the organizer was more Jason than Rob though, as the latter, a young man of good-humoured appearance, seemed more prone to staying in the background soberly. Written on his face was a deep, almost fatherly kindness, that made you feel comfortable instantly.

   After we had gathered the latecomers and defeated the obsessions with punctuality of our Swiss driver, we left the airport.
   In Verbier the group dispersed and I followed Rob and Jason with whom I had started to sympathize.

   Once our ski equipment rented, the three of us went toward the cable car. We did not notice the unusual absence of waiting line. We jumped into a cabin, just to realize one minute later that we had taken the wrong cabin, and that we were going down the valley rather than up the mountain.
   Half an hour and a whole free cable-car ride later, I knew every detail about the birth of DolphinMusic, and had realized how pleasant it was to be together with people that do not worry excessively about that kind of mishaps.
   Inclined to self-derision, Rob joked suggesting that I should be wondering how two inadvertent guys like he and Jason could have built up such a flourishing business.

   Later at the dinner, I got to appreciate Rob’s generous sense of humour, never aggressive toward anyone, and the witticisms he dropped so furtively into the conversation that you had to pay great attention to them, otherwise they would get stifled by noisier guests.

   Enjoying the present moment with no excess nor show off, eager to help people and wonder at things, I have known Rob for only two days but I immensely regret that fate deprived his friends, family, and the world, of one humble and generous man.

    
   

   Nicolas Steegmann

   March 6th, 2009 at 4:27 pmpermalink

10. After what could have only been described as one of the most extraordinary weekends of our lives, I heard the news of the tragic loss of Rob on my way in to work and was simply lost for words… I never knew Rob before the weekend trip and probably only got to chat with him for a few minutes at a time at different points of the weekend, but what was clear beyond a doubt, was how much of a lovely bloke he was. Given how much Rob and Jason have achieved, I found him to be really down to earth and friendly, to the point of finding him immediately likable and a great person to have around. I cannot imagine what Jason and Rob’s family are going through right now, but this tragic loss has touched us all in a way that one finds hard to describe. As a fellow entrepreneur, and somebody that came close to making a similar fateful decision with our ski group whilst in the white out, it serves to remind us how mortal we really are and how in this case, a catalogue of bad luck has led to the loss of a great guy, who has had a hugely positive impact as a successful entrepreneur, is inspiring to us all in what he has achieved and who will now always have a place in our hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with Jason and Robs family during this time, and would like to offer Jerome’s and my full support in any which way we can, to help. Jerome feels much the same way, and we offer our deepest condolences.

     
    

    Peter Ward and Jerome Touze

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:28 pmpermalink

11. Rob and I met for the first time on the Saturday morning and was one of the first people I had a chance to chat with from the group. He was warm, friendly and keen to find out about my life and business. Within minutes and without even realising, we had started discussing past experiences and the amusing, bizarre and memorable moments along our entrepreneurship journeys. Although only short, I will have fond memories of our brief chats and our final evening partying together as a group. Rob is a true example to us all about what can be achieved with true hard work and determination. My thoughts are with you and the rest of the family.

     
    

    Anthony Eskinazi

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:28 pmpermalink

12. Rob,
    The mountain took you away from us on Monday, … away from the laughts, energy, friendship and happiness that this week-end with fellows entrepreneurs has initiated. You left the group with a big smile, enjoying life till the very last moment …
    I’ve got a true respect for achievers in life and looking at what you’ve accomplished, there is no doubt that it will give the young generation some true inspiration - a mix of hard work, determination, generosity and humility and I like to thank you for this.
    My thoughts are also going to your family and Jason. I’ve been extremely closed to loosing my sister through her adventures and I’d like to share my true compassion and support with them at this particular time.

     
    

    Stephanie Bouchet

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:28 pmpermalink

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    Rob, you were such a gentle giant that everyone remembers with such affection. Each day that passes since I heard the terrible news leaves me even more confused as to why such a wonderful man would be taken away in such awful circumstances. There are the ‘Beaumont Boys’ and the ‘Beaumont Bitches’ and we all have some wonderful memories of such a fantastic school life. You will always be part of those memories and none of us will ever forget you. As a teacher now at Beaumont, I have spoken to staff that taught you and you are remembered with affection - that affection now becomes true admiration as your life’s achievements come to light.
    My heart goes out to your family and Jason at this terrible, terrible time. The values and integrity that you excuded cannot be taught which is a real testament to you and your family. You will be sorely missed. xxxx

     
    

    Elena Crompton (Dundjerovic)

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:29 pmpermalink

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    Rob, you are an inspiration.

    Not only for having had the dream to build a business and the dedication to make it real for you, partners, employees and customers. That is truly admirable.

    What is even more of an inspiration is how you did it. Your spirit, relaxed. Eyes, bright. Smile, everpresent. And with such an enviable and joyous relationship with your business partner and friend that few will ever know.

    You deserved the love and admiration all who know you gave you. You deserved the lovely life that you lived.

    It was an extreme and unlikely series of events that took you away. This stands as a reminder to us all to live life as you have. Fully and right.

    We will miss you. Even those of us who were just building a relationship with you. I cannot imagine the feelings of loss amongst your family and lifelong friends. I feel for you.

    We can only attempt to live by your example. Be well.

     
    

    Alex Hoye

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:29 pmpermalink

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    When the rest of the Music Industry didnt have a fucking clue what to do about the web, you and Jason lead by example.

    The world always looked to you for inspiration even if they didn’t say it.

    During my term as Chairman in the Music Industry it was you that justified the purpose in my opinion and I cannot believe you are no longer with us.

    Totally and utterly gutted.

     
    

    jMac

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:30 pmpermalink

16. Whilst I never had the priviledge of knowing Rob, directly, through the London community of Entrepreneurs, and through the Twitter streams of friends, I can feel just how tragic a loss it is to the world to lose someone as endearing, kind and gentle as Rob.

    I am saddened that I never got an opportunity to meet him in person, and even more so, that someone who was clearly a very giving, and caring, down to earth kind of guy has been taken away from us..

    My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and close friends, and the sadness that I feel through the community, is just testimony to your greatness. May your memory, and example inspire others to accomplish even a small proportion of what you accomplished.

     
    

    Farhan Rehman

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:30 pmpermalink

17. It is impossible to put into words how much much I will miss you mate. I have so many fond memories growing up with you, from us being in the ‘Back Row Crew’ with Tom in Mr Whyman’s class, dancing on the tables in the Firkin then having play fights on the way home, the nights out we had in Liverpool, the holidays we have been on, so many good times. You were such a warm hearted kind person and a great, great friend.

     
    

    Tom Partridge

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:30 pmpermalink

18. Robbie - the gentle giant who was everybody’s best friend.

    Your quiet confidence and determination carried you through so many achievements in your life: from the All-England shot-putter we first met in 7H, to the multi-million pound entrepreneur you became. Yet throughout, you never changed; you were still the same old Robbie we knew from school who treated everyone in exactly the same way - with kindness, warmth and a wicked sense of humour which made you so fun to be around.

    You stood out amongst us all and your life is truly worth celebrating. You have contributed so much to the lives of many, many people and will never be forgotten for that.

    Thank you so much for giving us your friendship and so many happy memories - most recently, the KM5 Ibiza magic and New Year’s Eve Mad-Hatters madness.

    You will always be a part of mine and Jamie’s lives.

    Robbie’s family, Jason and the boys - my love goes out to all of you.

    xxx

     
    

    Jenny Young

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:30 pmpermalink

19. I had the pleasure of knowing Rob for more than 18 years.
    I met him at the age of 11 when we visited Beaumont School for the first time, before we were due to start there in September. I remember being nervous about having to change schools, having heard all the usual scary stories, but Rob was so friendly and instantly made me feel like this big bad place may not be so bad after all.

    We were in the same class all the way through secondary school and went through so many milestone events growing up together, i can’t believe I will never see him again.

    Me, Rob & Jason went to our first Glastonbury festival together at the age of 18, driving through the night in our tuxedos after the 6th form leavers ball. We arrived to find it pouring with rain and spent the whole weekend with bin liners round our ankles covered in mud!
    Sleeping in a 2 man tent with a muddy Rob & Jason as room mates was not the most fun in the world, as you can probably imagine! But despite all the horrid bits, it was one of those weekends that i knew i would never forget, and Rob remained upbeat and tried to see the positive in everything, as always.

    I have so many memories where Rob is there, as one of the boys. His presence always made you feel relaxed (especially during my teenage years when fights could kick off at a moments notice- you knew that you’d be ok if Rob was with you. Not because he liked fighting but he was always one of the biggest and people would think twice before picking on him!). He was steady, reliable and above all an absolute geezer.

    Here is an e-mail Rob sent after we got back from Ibiza last September-

    ” It was a pretty good end to the week to get the award, great for business profile and it will keep my Mum happy. Personally I am prouder of that Football Tennis match where me & Dave came from 0-4 to win!

    It has been a mad busy week since Ibiza.and I have been ill for most of it with. I was a wicked holiday and I would like to say thanks for a great day on my Birthday - best I have had in years.

    It would be cool to have a NYE party in liverpool and let me know when we sort out dates for this trip to Bali.

    Have a great weekend whatever you are doing. Rob. ”

    That is so typical of Rob- always looking forward to the next adventure, thinking of others, especially his beloved mum- and he was more proud of winning a silly game with his mates than a prestigous business award! He achieved so much but was so modest with it.

    I was, and always will be, proud to call him one of my mates.

    Rob was such a genuinely nice bloke, who always listened to what you were saying and could always be relied upon to come out with some useful advice or a witty one-liner. He was always so chilled out, and seemed to take everything in his stride - and he did it with integrity and style.

    I will miss him, but never forget him. My thoughts are with his family, Jason and everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.

     
    

    Ben Bristow

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:31 pmpermalink

20. As ‘Beaumont Boy’ parents we didn’t know Robbie as well as most of you here. However we have long realized what a terrific bunch the ‘Beaumont Boys’ are, and Robbie always seemed to be at the heart of all that was going on even when he was in Liverpool and many of the others were based in or around London.
    We have always been impressed and grateful that Tom had such a close and strong group of friends and that they had stayed so close so many years after leaving school. We couldn’t tell you adequately how sad we feel for each one of you and for Robbie’s family.
    Even as a teenager Robbie had style and charm and was someone whom you would always welcome. We remember Robbie best from Tom and Hannah’s wedding. Robbie was the perfect guest, warm, open friendly, charming, generous and great fun. Robbie spoke to many people he didn’t know, young and old, and contributed so much to a wonderful day.
    Our hearts reach out to you all who were close to him, particularly his family and especially Jason.

     
    

    David and Rosemarie Partridge

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:31 pmpermalink

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    Rob, I only had the privilege to know you for a short while. In that time, on the ski trip to Chamonix and Tom’s stag do in Dublin, I got to know you as a funny, warm and gentle man. It was quite obvious to me, that you were a person that everybody greatly admired.

    I can particularly remember, with amusement, the time you were driving us from L’hotel du Bois to pick up ski hire. We had travelled a good mile or so before anyone realised you were driving on the wrong side of the road. You were so calm and unflustered about it.

    What you have achieved in your lifetime is nothing short of remarkable. Your business achievements with Jason have been what most can only hope for. The impression you have left on everybody just shows how much you will be dearly missed by all.

     
    

    Joe Wells

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:31 pmpermalink

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    Robbie, I just want to say that I feel privileged to have known you. Out of all our friends you are the one I have known longest after our early days together in Wynchlands Crescent. In our time at school together I will remember you as an excellent footballer and rugby player, I can remember watching you kick rugby balls from huge distances straight between the posts. Trying to stop you was like trying to stop an elephant, but thankfully you were usually on my side!

    Your size was a great advantage to you in many ways, and to your friends in many others. Who else was going to get the beers in when were fourteen, none of us had beards by then, so it was always you who had to go in and out of the offie! Naturally for boys of our age we got into a few scrapes along the way and you were always there to get in the way when things got ugly.

    As we got older your size became less noticeable, at which point it was your intelligence which took the lead. I loved talking to you and Jason about Dolphin and have relayed that amazing story to many people during my eight years in the City. I will miss greatly our chats about business and investment, although to be honest I never really did understand much you tried to tell me about IT!

    Your achievements were spectacular but you, and Jason handled it with great modesty. You were always looking forward, excited about what was next, be it with Dolphin or one of the many other areas in which you were interested, and this was an inspiration to me.

    I will miss you greatly.

    David

     
    

    David Gilbert

    March 6th, 2009 at 4:32 pmpermalink

23. Hannah Partridge

    Submitted on 2009/03/07 at 10:55am
    Robbie, I only knew you for a relatively short time but truly enjoyed and feel proud to be one of your friends.

    You have achieved so much and this will always be an inspiration to your friends, family and young entrepreneurs of the future.

    You will be so missed, but the memory of a gentle, kind and talented man will live on in all of us.

    My thoughts and love go to your family and Jason.

    Love Hannah

     
    

    admin

    March 7th, 2009 at 3:14 pmpermalink

24. Kelly Harvey

    Submitted on 2009/03/07 at 10:46am
    I am still finding it hard to believe a life without you in Robbie, and it is a real unjustice for this to have happened to such a truly amazingly wonderful & caring person.

    No words can make this time any easier for anyone but i will long cherish the opportunity to have met you through my brother and all the funny happy times spent with you. From the early crazy days spent in the many fire escapes of Peach and randomly meeting you guys in the Dam to your very successful move up North. Every time we visited you in Liverpool you were both so accommodating and made real efforts to ensure we had a good time. So many fun times were had. I remember us not being able to get into Cream on my birthday, a determined Robbie & Jase duo wanting to ensure my day was one to remember scheming to get some decks set up back at yours whilst we sat in the bar none the wiser until returning home for a great all nighter, and I wil always fondly remember sipping cocktails with you in Matthew Square.

    You always made sure that you were available to see Al & I wherever and whenever we returned from Dubai which meant so much to us, I am sad that our time away meant less time spent with good friends like you.

    I will never ever forget your friendly face and truly compassionate being Robbie, thank you for letting me be part of your life, love you loads and always will. My thoughts and heart is with your family, Jase and all those who have been privelaged to have known & loved you. xxxxx

    I am still finding it hard to believe a life without you in Robbie, and it is a real unjustice for this to have happened to such a truly amazingly wonderful & caring person.

    No words can make this time any easier for anyone but i will long cherish the opportunity to have met you through my brother and all the funny happy times spent with you. From the early crazy days spent in the many fire escapes of Peach and randomly meeting you guys in the Dam to your very successful move up North. Every time we visited you in Liverpool you were both so accommodating and made real efforts to ensure we had a good time. So many fun times were had. I remember us not being able to get into Cream on my birthday, a determined Robbie & Jase duo wanting to ensure my day was one to remember scheming to get some decks set up back at yours whilst we sat in the bar none the wiser until returning home for a great all nighter, and I wil always fondly remember sipping cocktails with you in Matthew Square.

    You always made sure that you were available to see Al & I wherever and whenever we returned from Dubai which meant so much to us, I am sad that our time away meant less time spent with good friends like you.

    I will never ever forget your friendly face and truly compassionate being Robbie, thank you for letting me be part of your life, love you loads and always will. My thoughts and heart is with your family, Jase and all those who have been privelaged to have known & loved you. xxxxx

    Kelly Harvey
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25. Dave Hicks

    Submitted on 2009/03/06 at 11:00pm
    I follow on from Heywood’s comments. Rob, I remember during one PE lesson when we were playing basketball, you scored a shot from the 3 point line. At that age, I had never seen that. I only found you on facebook a few days before what happened happened. I regret that we didn’t have a chance to talk. Like I said on your facebook site, you are gone but not forgotten. I don’t remember much about school but I remember you. To your family, my deepest condolences. You were one of the best ever.

    I follow on from Heywood’s comments. Rob, I remember during one PE lesson when we were playing basketball, you scored a shot from the 3 point line. At that age, I had never seen that. I only found you on facebook a few days before what happened happened. I regret that we didn’t have a chance to talk. Like I said on your facebook site, you are gone but not forgotten. I don’t remember much about school but I remember you. To your family, my deepest condolences. You were one of the best ever.
    doovey@hotmail.com
    Dave Hicks
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    March 7th, 2009 at 3:16 pmpermalink

26. Chris Fenn

    Submitted on 2009/03/06 at 5:46pm
    After having a few days for this terrible accident to sink in I wanted to actually put down some stories and memories of Rob. I first met him over 20 years ago at cubs where with him and Matty Scasbrook in our team we were practically unbeatable. I remember having to play against him as for St Albans City South when he played for St Albans City North and him denying me of a half way line lob with a save that defied gravity (I didn’t even get close to a goal for 5 years after this, Thanks Rob) Everyone who played football knew Rob, as lining up against him was almost a prerequisite for losing.

    During our teenage years Robbie was the source of much our erm…high jinx antics…due to the fact that only him and Steve could get booze. I think the guy in Folly Lane off license thought they were either rich or alcoholics the amount of times they used to go in for us all. One evening he knocked on my door and told me that a few of them were going to camp out the whole night (Lee Foster – if memory serves me correct this one was your idea) I followed Rob in nothing but a t-shirt and lo and behold at 5am in the morning was freezing. Rob of course lent me his jacket, a spot of whiskey and dawn came round soon enough.
    In fact a lot of my favourite stories generally occur at the end of nights, as Rob for all of his perceived laid back nature, he had more staying power than any of us. In Ibiza this year after everyone else had left Space only Robbie, Steve and myself were left dancing the night away until the sun was nearly up. Ditto at the Big Chill. Although also at the Big Chill this year the whole crew was up and dancing like loons in the sunshine and slap in the middle of all the madness sat Rob on his fold up chair, reading the Sunday papers, oblivious to it all.

    When we were boarding he would always be the one to take a bit of extra time drinking his coffee, telling Farley and me to just hold on a second, stop rushing everyone….and then as soon as you got to the top of the mountain he would be the person shouting at you to get out of his way as he zoomed past.

    Amazingly, for the smartest person I know we also discovered he didn’t know his left from his right. This occurred in treacherous driving conditions on the way to Geneva airport. We were already nervous wrecks from not knowing the way, Robbies suspect driving (20mph in the fast lane of the motorway getting undertaken by a HGV anyone???) and the apoplectic downpour. It is then I noticed we were about to miss our right turn and continually shouted at Robbie to get in the right hand lane. He got in the left and, to his credit, persevered to stay there even though Joe, Farley, Yuri and myself were all screaming at him “RIGHT RIGHT RIGHT”. It’s funny the little stories that you remember.

    Rob to me will always be the guy who would do anything for anyone at anytime. When we used to have our epic nights in Liverpool it was always Jasons everyone would go to and party but I always made sure I dropped my stuff off at Robbie’s before hand as at the end of the night when tiredness hit in and I was at my most drunken, Rob would always come back, even when maybe he would have stayed on a bit longer, make sure you got up his stairs okay and make you a cup of tea (although I think the Tea might have been more for him…..maybe)

    It’s incredible to think what you meant to people Rob. Our memories our the best legacy you left.

    After having a few days for this terrible accident to sink in I wanted to actually put down some stories and memories of Rob. I first met him over 20 years ago at cubs where with him and Matty Scasbrook in our team we were practically unbeatable. I remember having to play against him as for St Albans City South when he played for St Albans City North and him denying me of a half way line lob with a save that defied gravity (I didn’t even get close to a goal for 5 years after this, Thanks Rob) Everyone who played football knew Rob, as lining up against him was almost a prerequisite for losing.

    During our teenage years Robbie was the source of much our erm…high jinx antics…due to the fact that only him and Steve could get booze. I think the guy in Folly Lane off license thought they were either rich or alcoholics the amount of times they used to go in for us all. One evening he knocked on my door and told me that a few of them were going to camp out the whole night (Lee Foster – if memory serves me correct this one was your idea) I followed Rob in nothing but a t-shirt and lo and behold at 5am in the morning was freezing. Rob of course lent me his jacket, a spot of whiskey and dawn came round soon enough.
    In fact a lot of my favourite stories generally occur at the end of nights, as Rob for all of his perceived laid back nature, he had more staying power than any of us. In Ibiza this year after everyone else had left Space only Robbie, Steve and myself were left dancing the night away until the sun was nearly up. Ditto at the Big Chill. Although also at the Big Chill this year the whole crew was up and dancing like loons in the sunshine and slap in the middle of all the madness sat Rob on his fold up chair, reading the Sunday papers, oblivious to it all.

    When we were boarding he would always be the one to take a bit of extra time drinking his coffee, telling Farley and me to just hold on a second, stop rushing everyone….and then as soon as you got to the top of the mountain he would be the person shouting at you to get out of his way as he zoomed past.

    Amazingly, for the smartest person I know we also discovered he didn’t know his left from his right. This occurred in treacherous driving conditions on the way to Geneva airport. We were already nervous wrecks from not knowing the way, Robbies suspect driving (20mph in the fast lane of the motorway getting undertaken by a HGV anyone???) and the apoplectic downpour. It is then I noticed we were about to miss our right turn and continually shouted at Robbie to get in the right hand lane. He got in the left and, to his credit, persevered to stay there even though Joe, Farley, Yuri and myself were all screaming at him “RIGHT RIGHT RIGHT”. It’s funny the little stories that you remember.

    Rob to me will always be the guy who would do anything for anyone at anytime. When we used to have our epic nights in Liverpool it was always Jasons everyone would go to and party but I always made sure I dropped my stuff off at Robbie’s before hand as at the end of the night when tiredness hit in and I was at my most drunken, Rob would always come back, even when maybe he would have stayed on a bit longer, make sure you got up his stairs okay and make you a cup of tea (although I think the Tea might have been more for him…..maybe)

    It’s incredible to think what you meant to people Rob. Our memories our the best legacy you left.

    Chris Fenn
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    March 7th, 2009 at 3:17 pmpermalink

27. Rob Heywood

    Submitted on 2009/03/06 at 4:29pm
    Absolutely shocked to hear the news. I’d only accepted your friend request on Facebook last week.

    Although we went to school together my clearest memories are from our days together at St Albans City Youth. You were our giant goalkeeper until one match Stuart Jukes decided to stick you up front and you scored 4 goals in 20 minutes - I don’t think we ever looked back.

    I also remember after we’d left school hearing the news that you’d dropped out of uni and invested your student loan into starting up your own business. At the time I thought that was pretty silly - just goes to show what I know.

    I may have lost touch over the years but I’ve always admired what you have achieved and it just seems so unfair that you are no longer here.

    Condolences to your Mum and sister

    To St Albans City Youth North’s U12s Gentle Giant

    Absolutely shocked to hear the news. I’d only accepted your friend request on Facebook last week.

    Although we went to school together my clearest memories are from our days together at St Albans City Youth. You were our giant goalkeeper until one match Stuart Jukes decided to stick you up front and you scored 4 goals in 20 minutes - I don’t think we ever looked back.

    I also remember after we’d left school hearing the news that you’d dropped out of uni and invested your student loan into starting up your own business. At the time I thought that was pretty silly - just goes to show what I know.

    I may have lost touch over the years but I’ve always admired what you have achieved and it just seems so unfair that you are no longer here.

    Condolences to your Mum and sister

    To St Albans City Youth North’s U12s Gentle Giant

    Rob Heywood
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28. Lou Bean

    Submitted on 2009/03/06 at 4:27pm
    I have had a very heavy heart all week and want to send my love and support to both Robbie’s family and Jason at this incredibly difficult time.

    As so many of the tributes and reports I have read over the past few days have said and which I want to re-iterate Robbie was a true gent and the world is a such a poorer place for his loss.

    When I think of Robbie I can’t help but smile because he was always such good fun and so kind and gentle. I last saw him when we sat together at a friend’s wedding in October and we spent the whole time laughing and that will be how I will always remember him.

    I am headed out to the mountains snowboarding on Sunday and the love I once had for them has changed because they have robbed the world of a true gem.

    Love to you all and please go carefully

    Lou Lou x

     
    

    admin

    March 7th, 2009 at 3:18 pmpermalink

29. I was lucky to have met the lovely Rob, if only briefly, but the Rob I was lucky enough to meet was open, warm and living in the present moment.

    We met with the rest of the group outside Farinet on Saturday afternoon. It was a beautiful day, blue skies, the sun was setting on Verbier and I bounced up to Nicolas (who i had met previously) and Rob and said ‘Hi, what do you do’ and he talked about how he met Jason and about setting up Dolphin Music and I talked about what I did and Rob listened intently even though i was probably chit chatting on and on and on…Sharing beer on the terrace, we were all laughing as Nicolas and Rob told me about their day - taking the ski lift the wrong way down the mountain and their hunt for baguettes and why we could not make bread in the UK like they do in Switzerland.

    On Monday morning we all had breakfast together and did a team ‘Chalet Venus’ huddle…we were all laughing so much together and I think i’m not alone in sharing a warm feeling within the group.

    My heart goes out to Rob’s family and to brave Jason.

     
    

    Hermione Way

    March 8th, 2009 at 8:45 pmpermalink

30. Rob I knew for a very short time, but already you made a big impact on me. Your generosity, kindness, openness and the constant smile you had on your face, all backed up by an amazing drive and spirit to have created such a successful business, something all those who were on the trip with you want to aspire to have. You epitomized the type of entrepreneur I wish to be.

    To share a few memories of what a wonderful weekend we had together, after finishing a hard day of skiing you and Jason were the first people I met at the bar and were quick to buy me a drink, we got straight into talking about dolphin and about the weekend we had ahead. After a great night the next day we met for an amazing après ski in a little cute French chalet a little way up the mountain where it was just the seven of us. We enjoyed a drink, the absolutely amazing view and we chatted in great detail about what a successful business you had created and how we were all envious! Straight after that we skii’’ed/snow boarded down being the last on the mountain and excited about the night ahead. At the bottom of the mountain you lent me your board while Jason I and Lucian used them as sleds and raced each other while you and Irra laughed and filmed it! That night I have to confess was probably one of the best nights of my life which we shared together, amazing people, and great fun. The next day we went out earlier than the previous day with Jason, Josh, Leah, Andres and you, and did some amazing skiing which I think was probably some of the best I have done (and hardest!) since I’ve been an adult, we down Mont Fort and then Tortin both hard blacks. We made our way to lunch, in a mountain Chalet famous for fondue, which neither you or I had! After lunch Josh and I chickened out after the hard morning and went out our own way to do some easy runs.

    That afternoon the White out came from nowhere, and due to terrible and extremely unlucky circumstances you were taken from us. I heard the news at 1 am after doing what I could with Josh and Hermione to get you back safely.

    All my thoughts and support go out to Jason and your Family, your loss has crushed me, and I really have no words for how your close friends and family must be handling this. You parted us doing what you love, amongst friends, and left me with amazing memories I will never forget.

     
    

    Sam Mathews

    March 9th, 2009 at 1:04 ampermalink

31. There is so much that I could add form a deeply personal perspective to what Sam has already said, and said so well.
    Samski and I both met Rob and Jason at the end of the first day, and Rob was responsible for my first alcoholic drink in Verbier that weekend. It seemed we had little in common as I was the only one not in his industry, and just on holiday after exhausting fashion week- but I can safely say that evening kicked off many a toasts and running jokes. Cheers to you buddy.

    The thing I shall always remember is Rob’s perma-smile, his face lit up and made one feel welcome no matter
    how little we had known each other, on the slopes and apres ski. I ended up talking to Rob and Jason on the balcony at the party the night after, and quickly figured out we are both ‘work hard, play hard’ people with some quality anecdotes!

    The evening of Team Brandy on the mountain still stands before my eyes… The seven of us, just sitting there feeling on top of the world after exhausting runs and jumps… with the most incredible mountain view all around our open balcony.
    It was around 5pm on Sunday evening, as we sat watching Verbier transformed from day to night, while the most intensely blue skyline and our drinks were lit up by the setting sun. Jason and Rob had bought that round, with 5 beers for the chaps and 2 vin chaudes for the pansies (Nick and I

    I have a video from the hilarious half an hour Sam described- Rob stood behind the net at the very bottom of the mountain,
    and as the crazy trinity of Lucian Sam and Jason sledged down, they pushed each other into the net and into Rob, who managed to fall over and laughed for ever! The camera shook as I tried not to giggle, and we continued this hilarious process for quite some time.. who knew that Rob and Jason had had phenomenal sledges strapped onto their feet? We didn’t care for their poor boards - we all agreed that vastly superior entertainment was to be had while sitting on them sideways and giggling like schoolgirls!

    I wish I had the chance to show that video to Rob..he’d asked me in the evening and we agreed to watch it altogether -later on. You never know when ‘later on’ is…
    The day the whiteout came we too got lost. It could have been any of us ‘Team Brandy maddogs’ to have gone the wrong way.. I know we took a few quite daring chances offpiste to get off the white mountain through the evening. Foolhardy entrepreneurs- that is our spirit afterall.
    How perilous and precious life is.

    I hope we all learn from this.. knowing one’s limitations and being sensible seems dull, but oh so necessary sometimes.
    I am praying for the family, for Jason, and for Rob.
    My love goes out to you all.
    irra

     
    

    Irra K

    March 9th, 2009 at 7:11 pmpermalink

32. I first met Robbie in class 7H, 1991 so many funny times we had in Beaumont and the place many strong life long friendships were formed. Robbie was always one of the Beaumont boys and will always be one of the Beaumont boys, the strong friendships he had in his life illustrates the person Robbie was and all the tributes on here and other sites to Robbie show how much he brought to other peoples lives. I may not have seen Robbie that frequently but there was always Christmas eve, and I always knew I would catch up with him then. Robbie had achieved so much and yet none of the success had changed him, he was still as cheery, kind and modest as ever!

    My thoughts are with Robbie’s family and the boys x

     
    

    Mercia Yeldham

    March 9th, 2009 at 9:18 pmpermalink

33. I had the honour of knowing Robbie Williams for nearly 25 years of my life and I find it impossible to put into words the loss myself and all others that knew him feel now thats he’s gone.

    One of my earliest memories I have of Robbie was when we were around 10 years old. During our Primary school lesson Robbie decided to cut a little bald patch into the side of his hair with some blunt scissors during a cut and stick exercise. As you can imagine the class were in total histerics, Robbie was a class hero but was subjected to a serious ear bashing from the teacher and he think he was told to stand on his chair in shame. Its funny the things you remember when someones gone and I’m so glad I remember that one. As all the boys have already said Robbie was a giant on the football park, be it in goal or out on pitch Robby shone. We were on the same team at Oakwood JMI primary school and with the rest of the boys lifted the cup after a legendary final game at Kilagrew school. We also played together in the mighty 18th cub team and lifted the Salway Cup, Robbie was one of the main reasons we won what we did, and I will always think back to these times with a big smile on my face.

    His success with Jason at Dolphin Music was an inspiration to all but despite all of that sucess Robbie never changed, he was always the same old Rob we knew and loved, one of the boys with such a big heart who would have time for anyone.

    I still can’t believe your gone mate and things won’t be the same without you. My deepest sympathy goes out to Robbies family and all that were close to him, Rob touched the lives of so many lucky people and will live on forever in our hearts and minds.

    Sleep Easy big man x

     
    

    Alex Bentley

    March 9th, 2009 at 11:12 pmpermalink

34. Thank you for all your comments. I don’t know which is the harder thing to do, to read them, or to write this.

    It has made me a proud man to watch how well Rob has done in business and the world of politics, and to see that he had many friends, and how the people who worked for him also thought of him as a friend.
    Friends are the most important people in life.

    I can remember the small boy who brought his bike to me to “Fix” and charged him 10 pence for doing so. Robert paid without a thought. Robert was always hard working, he would work peeling potatoes and cleaning till 2pm at restaurants and still manage to set the market stalls in the morning. He knew early that you got nothing for nothing.

    Robert knew respect is earned. I can see that has paid out a thousand fold from those who meet him.

    When Robert was 8, he made a china house at school. He told his mum this was the house he wanted it had a chimney, 5 windows and a door.

    I thought the hardest thing in the world to do was for a man to bury his son, but it is worse to watch his sister to wipe the tears from her mother’s face for the same funeral.

    I still have that china house, but I don’t have Robert any more. In my heart he is still with us all.

    pete williams (Rob’s Dad)

     
    

    pete williams

    March 10th, 2009 at 7:54 pmpermalink

35. I always remember Rob as a gentle giant, one of the boys who was equally responsible for all the pranks at school, yet always had the innocent look so got away with it! I haven’t seen Rob for years, but remember him fondly, and feel truly devastated for the obvious void he leaves in so many lives. The comments left are a tribute not just to Rob, but to his friends and family, who have all contributed to Rob being Rob. My thoughts go out to all Rob’s family, friends and colleagues, Rob leaves a legacy for others to aspire to and will clearly be missed by everyone xxx

     
    

    Kirstie Hamilton

    March 10th, 2009 at 8:52 pmpermalink

36. Robbie, when I think about you I remember how comfortable it was to be around you and how smooth your voice was. I think about those Brookdale days with a smile and in particular the many parties in Liverpool that we were all lucky enough to be at together. The last party I went to with you, you were dressed as a vicar and looked brilliant. I’m going to try and find a photo for everyone. Meanwhile Jake was Steve Irwin, my brother was in the tightest lycra cycling suit in the world (not the best look) and Adam and I were the couple from Hitchcock’s ‘The Birds’. As ever with you it was great fun. It’s a good memory to have now. Like so many other people I’ve thought about you a lot over the last week. I will miss you and will remember you with a big smile. Rest easy.
    Love Helen xx

     
    

    Helen Ball

    March 11th, 2009 at 10:20 ampermalink

37. I only knew Robert as a young boy who an many occasions came, together with his mother and sister Emma, to watch his father Pete play bass guitar in our band, Infinity. Perhaps this was when the seeds for his later business interests and successes were sown.

    I had heard of his progress over the years and know that his mother, Emma and Pete were very proud of all Robert’s achievements in his short but packed life, he will be greatly missed and our family’s hearts and thoughts are with them at this sad time.

     
    

    David Almond (Dave the Drum)

    March 11th, 2009 at 10:39 ampermalink

38. It was with much sadness that I read of this tragic news last weekend when back home in St.Albans. Rob, I remember you well from our days playing footy for City Youth, what a great keeper you were and a man mountain of a kid even back then. I also remember you beating me to the county rugby team when we in school and despite my disapointment back then, I recall being pleased that it was you who took the place as you were a great bloke, a great competitor and a good friend to boot.
    I saw your Mum last year on another trip back home and my thoughts go out to her and your family at this time, she is a lovely woman and I know she would be so proud of you.
    Jas - my thoughts are with you and your family too, you’ll come through it big man just keep the faith.

    Best wishes to all and Rob, you’ll be missed by all who knew you.

    Martin Thompson

     
    

    Martin Thompson

    March 11th, 2009 at 5:09 pmpermalink

39. Robbie, The kindest man I ever knew, A true gentleman, you always had a smile upon you face and always made those around you smile, you are and always will be a true legend. I’m so happy to have been fortunate enough to have spent quality time with you in Canada, Ibiza etc funtimes and times I will always cherish. You will be sadly missed bud… but with so many fond memories you will continue to make us smile forever.

    All my love Bazza. x

     
    

    Baz Evans

    March 11th, 2009 at 8:16 pmpermalink

40. A truly kind man that will be dearly missed by friends and family, a great loss to all who knew him, a very sad day for all of us.

     
    

    colin wilkins

    March 12th, 2009 at 11:38 ampermalink

41. I only met Rob the once, but he instantly made me feel comfortable and welcome. I will never forget that night, it was New years eve. We all had hats on and we all looked ridiculous….,that was the most fantastic night.

    My love and heart goes out to Rob’s family and to Jason. We are all thinking of you in Liverpool and our love goes out to you all.

    Travel Safe Rob xx

     
    

    Kim Wilson

    March 12th, 2009 at 2:32 pmpermalink

42. I didn’t know Robbie all that well and being family makes that a sad statement. The only time we all get together is for Weddings or Funerals for a few hours and then we’re gone, off on the road. For those few hours we would spend together it would feel as though I saw Robbie all the time. He would welcome me with a friendly smile and a hand shake that said it all. To have a cousin and a friend who achieved what he had and still be the loving and caring person he was gives me so much pride and respect.
    Times like these makes you wonder why I didn’t pick up the phone to him or send a quick email asking how things were. Time is short and the sand is running out quickly, I just wish i hadn’t waited until the last grain had gone before i realised it was empty.
    We will all remember you forever Robbie as the person you were and the man you had become.

    All my love Tom.

     
    

    Tom Williams

    March 12th, 2009 at 4:01 pmpermalink

43. Robbie, I saw you for the first time in 4 years on Christmas Eve and as always, despite the long time gap, it was just like old times – you gave me a big hug, made me laugh and I left thinking that I should see you more often. I now feel empty that I won’t get the chance to do that, but grateful that I got one last chance to see you. Although I hadn’t seen you much in recent years, I too have fond memories of our time at Beaumont and the more I read on this site, the more memories flood back. My favourite memory (so far) is of our GCSE PE assessment where, despite being about twice my size and infinitely more talented at football than me, you let me get the ball with a tackle worthy of a red card – you left the pitch with a slight limp, and I got a slightly improved mark! That’s the generous, gentle giant that we all remember you to be.
    My heart goes out to Robbie’s family, Jason and all of the Beaumont Boys who have lost a wonderful son and close friend. For my part, I will miss our Christmas Eve meetings – they will be incomplete without you. x

     
    

    Tamsyn Clark (Allen)

    March 12th, 2009 at 11:01 pmpermalink

44. I got to know Robbie as he went to university with my sister, Helen. Against his better judgement, I managed to convince Rob to join my 5 a side football team and despite being thrashed week after week by teenage scousers our team provided a lot of humour. I think that we won 7-6 on one occasion but the usual kind of score was 24-2 or 34-5, that kind of thing! It was worth it each week for Rob’s ferocious shooting.

    I have been thinking this week Rob, about the amazing amount that you achieved in your life. You did not sit around waiting, you just worked hard living your dream. This will definitely inspire me to do the same and I am sure it will for others too.

    Rest easy Rob

    Matt

     
    

    matt ball

    March 16th, 2009 at 11:08 ampermalink

45. I didn’t believe Chris when he told me he lived with Robbie Williams…I thought I’d well and truly landed on my feet when we’d got together. After visiting their house on Aigburth Road in Liverpool back in 2004 and I was introduced to Robbie, I knew I definitely had!

    Robbie was a fantastic friend throughout the short time I knew him. Always a smile on his face and a happy hug to welcome me back when I visited the ‘pool.

    I last saw Rob strutting his stuff on the dance floor at my wedding in October 2008, where Jason had been fantastic as our best man. They are the happy times and fond memories I’ll carry with me.

    My thoughts and love go to Rob’s family at this deeply sad time and of course to Jason. What a team you guys made…simply the best.

    Love Lynsey xx

    Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal (Anon)

     
    

    Lynsey Davis

    March 16th, 2009 at 4:17 pmpermalink

46. My earliest memory of Robbie is from junior school when we played our first away footy match at Oakwood School. Even at that age Rob’s reputation preceded him and I knew prior to the game that we were in for a tough one. I can’t remember what the score was (Matty or Farley will take pleasure in reminding me I’m sure) but I can remember the impression Rob made on me when we walked on to the pitch and the relief as we walked off that I wouldn’t have to play against him for at least another year. Little did I know, at the time, that in the near future we would no longer be sporting rivals but team mates and most importantly great friends.

    I was lucky enough to spend many hours travelling in various minibuses with Robbie where I would see him change from the mild mannered man most of you know to a fully focused and committed sporting combatant. Rob was always a natural sportsman, where as I needed to practice and to train hard just to keep up with him. With his support we forged an unstoppable partnership as the “big men” of Beaumont School Basketball team. I will always remember the reaction we would get when arriving at a new opponent’s court, the opposition team literally quaking in their boots at the sight of a lanky giant (me) and what most of them thought was a grown man pretending to be a student (Rob), striding in. Just his mere presence was worth at least a 10 point lead before we’d even tipped off. Rob and I (not forgetting the rest of team) went on to rule the Herts league and through hard work we won the league title not only for our year but also the school year above. Those who have represented Beaumont at Basketball will know only too well the importance of beating St Columbus, those games would bring out the warrior in us all, and I’m pleased to say that after some initial loses we went on to beat them over many years. Happy times. It was our partnership which led to two of my proudest sporting achievements, walking with Rob to the stage in assembly to pick up our “colours” for sport achievement and representing Hertfordshire at county level. Without Rob making me look good I don’t know if these moments would have ever been possible.

    Unfortunately, somewhere on the road to the NBA, we both got a little distracted with “life” and no professional contracts came our way; however I am pleased to say that although our sporting partnership came to an end our friendship did not.

    Rob has been with me during most of the highlights in my life from holidays in the snow to fun & games in Ibiza and many many hazy times in between. His loyalty and love of the good times was unquestionable as was his ability to fall asleep or source a drink in any location. We were so fortunate to spend so much time in Rob’s presence and his drive and ambition is an inspiration in all we do and achieve in the future.

    Losing someone so close is as painful as it gets but I can take strength from all the time I spent with Rob and the fond memories I have. I am honoured to have had someone like Robbie in my life.

    My thoughts are with Elham, Peter and Emma and I want them to know that Rob will never be forgotten and will always with us. His legacy lives in the hearts of all the people he has touched during his exceptional life.

     
    

    Steve Machell

    March 16th, 2009 at 5:03 pmpermalink

47. Robs,

    From inspiring me to get my first ever e mail address ( I even copied yours!) to building computers for me, to escorting me to my 1st “Bugged Out” at Cream, to just being a general all round top bloke, I shall sorely sorely miss you.

    My last big memory is Chrissy D’s stag, Jason’s normal mess up (petrol this time) and you keeping a calm and level head the whole way through….. and sitting in the drawing room with both our tins at the ready, putting the world to rights while everyone else played poker.

    You truly were one in a million. Keep it real up there bro.

    Jon x

     
    

    Jon Davis

    March 16th, 2009 at 5:21 pmpermalink

48. Ever since I heard the news I have wanted to write something that does justice to the wonderful man that Robbie was. But each time I have tried, the words seem so empty. It’s hard to capture exactly how much Robbie meant to so many of us, and to express the great sadness at his passing. He was kind, incisive, warm, funny and clever. Robbie loved life, and he lived it to the full. I will miss him greatly and feel truly blessed to have known him. Rest in peace, Robbie. You were loved and will be missed so much.

    Caroline xx

     
    

    Caroline Simpson

    March 16th, 2009 at 5:30 pmpermalink

49. This is so hard to put into words. Nothing seems enough.

    Rob mate, you were a great friend. I told you before that you were my hero and I meant it. You truly were an inspiration to all of us. I am so proud to call you one of my best friends. As a group, we are all like extended family. I’ve had some of the greatest times ever with you and the crew. So many that they are hard to separate.

    The way in which your friendship and love has brightened everyone’s lives. Everything you’ve achieved with Jas and the team at Dolphin all stands to show how incredible you were at everything. Even people who have only known you a matter of days will be forever grateful that they had.

    Many people can only dream of achieving the same as you in several lifetimes, let alone in your short time here. And that was only the beginning.

    Thinking back there are so many memories. I used to love playing football and rugby with you. The occasional shot put as well, although you were in a completely different league to me. I remember just trying to pick up one of those cannon balls you used to launch half way down the field. You could have beaten a fully grown man when you were still at school, regardless of what you were throwing!

    You were unstoppable at Rugby too. We had some good games for Beaumont, we seriously demolished some of those poor teams we played against. Football too. It’s well documented that you were actually a cat between the sticks. Most of the time I think because strikers would get in front of you and think “dam, he’s massive”. Of course by the time they’d thought it, you’d already pounced on them.

    You were a gentle giant but you wouldn’t even think twice about standing up for your friends. I remember one of Steve and Glanville’s parties in St Albans when someone was giving Coley a hard time. The guy was quite large but you didn’t care. You stepped straight in and even though your glasses got broke, you diffused the situation in your own special calm way.

    I’ve been looking at lots of photos from the great times we had as a group. You’ll struggle to find one of you not smiling. From all those Liverpool trips back in the day when you and Jas were still working out of your old house. Those big BBQs in the park. You were always so happy to see us and it would be as if no time had passed since we last saw you. I remember each time, seeing how you and Jas were building your empire piece by piece. Each time leaving me more inspired.

    I saw a few photos from our Amsterdam trips too. When you and me went with Pep, Richie and those boys. I remember they all wanted to go and do the looking around / tourist thing. When they asked us about going out, you looked at me and we didn’t even need to say anything to each other…….obviously we stayed in and ate lots of food.

    Ibiza as well. Banana boating on your birthday! You don’t know how worried I was sat in between you and Jason! I’ll never know how you managed to stay on it as well after everyone else got wiped off. I think maybe you paid off the driver.

    You were a hardcore professional too. Ben already mentioned when you won the Director of the Year award last year, how you played it down. You said that you were prouder of when you and me won that football tennis game against Jason and Jamie out in Ibiza. Granted, it was amazing. A 4-0 come-back executed so perfectly. The sheer athleticism and unshakable belief shown was legendary. Even now, Jason and Jamie refuse to believe what happened that day. I know that we rubbed their faces in it a lot….but we should have done it more. It still doesn’t seem real that we can’t have that re-match. None of this seems real.

    As your friends we are all in pain. Our hearts cry for your family’s indescribable loss. Our thoughts are with them. As they are with Jason too. It’s not fair that you’ve been taken from us and the world already seems a slightly darker place. Your grounded attitude and respect for others feelings are missed already. You have left an un-measureable void in all of our lives. Your kindness and unconditional love and friendship will be so hard to live without. You were so generous, funny and successful and yet still so down to earth and modest. And these qualities are echoed throughout all of the lovely tributes to you.

    You will be with us all forever as we think of you and celebrate your amazing life. In our hearts and thoughts you will live always.

    I am so thankful that I got to spend every second I did with you mate.

    Love Dave.

     
    

    David Eames

    March 16th, 2009 at 6:37 pmpermalink

50. I remember Rob for his smile. I remember him for the bounce in his step as he walked in the room. I remember him for working hard and working clever. I remember him for having a Mars Bar for his breakfast.

    I remember him for telling our stubborn client that despite how they thought things should happen, this is how it was going to happen! I remember that the sound of eating apples used to really annoy him.

    I remember that with the softest of touches he broke someones leg while playing football, such was his commitment to the tackle. Rob was always committed to achieving his goals.

    I remember that Rob was always complimentary when talking to others about me. I remember that when taken to a vegetarian cafe one lunchtime, Rob couldn’t cope and went to McDonalds on the way back.

    I remember missing Rob when he left Enzyme. I remember knowing that he’d go on to be successful with Dolphin. I remember a great goal that Rob scored where he pirouetted and leapt and struck the ball with the grace that shouldn’t have been possible for a man of his build.

    I remember that Rob didn’t like early mornings. I remember that Rob always made you feel welcome.

    I’ll always remember Rob. He’ll be sadly missed, but fondly remembered - as the kind, warm-hearted guy that he clearly was.

    Richard

     
    

    Richard Bailey

    March 16th, 2009 at 7:15 pmpermalink

51. It was a privilege to have known Rob. He was a real inspiration. Whilst his achievements are what most of us dream about, he was no ‘dreamer’. He was completely focussed on realising those dreams. In all the time I knew Rob, he never changed. Rob handled his success and achievement the way we all hope we could - by being true to himself – and those around him. A true gentleman. Thanks Rob. You’ll be sorely missed.

    My thoughts are with Rob’s family and friends.

     
    

    Gary Cooper

    March 16th, 2009 at 8:27 pmpermalink

52. When I moved to Liverpool about 8 years ago Rob was one one of the first people I met, as I sat next to him at work. I remember him introducing himself after the job interview; big smile and super friendly as always. I think Rob had many many qualities which everyone who knew him experienced. Along with his friendliness he always seemed to make people around him comfortable - with his sense of humour and also the way he was thoughtful about everyone. He was always respectful and unassuming to all alike. He had so many qualities of character which will both leave so many people missing him and brought him the success he deserved in business.

    He was always up for a night out and was brilliant fun to be with, especially on a dancefloor. He was also never too be busy to be helpful as a friend, even when he was madly successful and busy he would always help out. Best of all was just chatting to Rob and laughing about things.

    I feel very lucky to have met and known Rob, and my thoughts are with everyone suffering this loss, especially his family and Jason.

    Steve

     
    

    steve menday

    March 16th, 2009 at 9:16 pmpermalink

53. What’s all the fuss…
    Rob would always be there…No fuss
    He would help and advise…No fuss
    Drink a beer…No fuss
    Play footie with the lads…No fuss
    Stand his ground…No fuss
    Do what friends do…No fuss
    Where ever he was he was always one of us…No fuss
    His actions speak louder than words…

     
    

    Melvin Lyons

    March 16th, 2009 at 10:39 pmpermalink

54. Whenever I’ve been thinking about Robbie over the last couple of weeks, I’ve been cheered at first - remembering the giggles we had over the summer and the sound of his voice and his laugh - and then it hits me that it’s not going to happen again and it cuts me up. I first met Robbie in the Finch and Firkin in Liverpool, introduced to him by Jason and my impression was of a really nice, affable guy; easy to talk to and friendly. This first impression was proved to be absolutely true over the rest of my time at university when we lived opposite one another. I didn’t see Robbie an awful lot after I left university but over the last couple of years we’ve met up for friends’ stag weekends and weddings and I’ve realised that he wasn’t only a nice, friendly guy, but also really cool, hilariously funny, incredibly intelligent and gracious with all his success. All these attributes were magnified by the fact he was also so modest and self deprecating. I think everybody who met him was impressed with a feeling of a genuinely lovely guy - I can’t say enough nice things about him and you won’t find a single person with a bad word to say about him.

    Robbie - at Chris’s stag do you were the only person who wanted to play my stupid ‘Say What?’ game with me (we were hooked on it for about two hours) and for that and many other things I love you. I’m gonna miss you. I wish there were more people in this world like you.

     
    

    Asher Wyborn

    March 17th, 2009 at 1:33 ampermalink

55. In the world of today it is easy to take the measure of a man’s life by his wealth and success, but to do this with Robert is to be blind to the man he was.

    I knew little of Robert’s business life other than what I have read since his tragic death, but it seems that he had a very rare gift indeed, that of being a successful businessman and yet still be able to command the respect and affection of all who came into contact with him – a truly gentle man and human being.

    As his uncle, my most poignant memory of Robert was in his parent’s kitchen following the death of my mother (Robert’s grandmother). The mood was solemn, some chatting, some just sitting with their thoughts, but off to the side was Robbie – quiet, unassuming, not wishing to intrude on my grief, but just there. Not much of a memory you may think, but the dignity, understanding and courtesy he showed me and the rest of the family that day will remain with me forever.

    I cannot begin to imagine the loss and emptiness his parents and sister must feel and no words of comfort will ever ease their pain, but the overwhelming grief felt by so many people who knew Robert will, with time, remind them of just how much their son was loved and respected by all.

    It is true that the measure of any man is what he leaves behind and Robert left a wealth of memories, memories that leave us all the richer for having known him.

    The world is a poorer place today.

    Michael, Pam, Sophie and Tom Williams

     
    

    Michael Williams

    March 17th, 2009 at 12:39 pmpermalink

56. Robbie,

    I’ve been staring at this little white box too long in confusion, so I’m just gonna write from the heart.
    You were a true and honest person; gentle, dignified, intelligent and an absolute inspiration to any one who knew you. No one could ever fill the space so tragically left by you and you will be sorely missed by me and many, many others. I remember great times together through Uni (too many parties at Brookdale and 81 to mention!) and I remember some lesser times too, when you were always there when I needed you: nothing I ever asked you for in the course of our friendship was too much trouble.But mostly, when I think of you, I remember laughing and smiling and having fun! I didn’t know at the time I was in the presence of real greatness, but I do now. It’s very rare to come across that in a lifetime and I will cherish that privilege for ever.
    Love and Light,

    Caoimhe

     
    

    Caoimhe McKerr

    March 17th, 2009 at 1:43 pmpermalink

57. Back when Dolphin Music started up, my first thoughts were that the boys there were just another set of guys wanting to sell Music software from their bedroom, and initially I have to say we didn’t make it that easy for them.

    It soon became clear that Rob and Jason actually knew what they were doing and at the same time as growing spectacularly, they did business with a wonderful manner, that made dealing with them a pleasure. Meetings were fun, one of which was in a stairwell at Wembley for some reason, but their professionalism and drive were evident.

    The last time I really spent time with Rob (& Chris) was last summer, where they sat with me at an industry event - as always Rob was great fun and we all drank a little too much, but I never expected that would be the last one..

    We’ll all miss you Rob

    Steve

     
    

    Stephen Parker

    March 17th, 2009 at 2:48 pmpermalink

58. Rob,you were a great friend,a great housemate and a great boss.

    I’ll always remember playing footy with you and the boys and how we used to get trounced every week by the kids! haha!

    I will miss you mate and i hope you are driving that big yellow porsche now!

    You lived an amazing life my friend,be proud of what you achieved and the person you grew up to become,im so proud to have been able to call you my friend.

    Rest in peace Rob.

    Danny

     
    

    Daniel Heys

    March 17th, 2009 at 3:37 pmpermalink

59. I have tried to write something so many times over the last week to sum up every thing Rob meant to me, and am struggling to share my memories because the time we spent together was private, intimate and filled with laughter. It would be doing Rob an injustice for me to describe the heaviness in my heart. Rob, you were so humble and attentive and never failed to suprise me. I have never met anybody who was less self absorbed than you. I once told you to chill out with work, and take back a bit of your life. I was so wrong telling you that, you truly lived life to the full and were clearly an inspiration to so many.
    Rob, you lit up my life. You made me feel so special and you meant the world to me. I miss you so much and always will.
    Love always,
    Lou
    x x x

     
    

    Louise Hide

    March 17th, 2009 at 7:39 pmpermalink

60. No words can aspire to comprehend the enormity of the gap that loosing Robbie has had, however, I will always remember what he means to me and the memories he instilled along the way.
    Robbie reminds me of school summer holidays riding bikes, practicing our wheelies and endos’ down Wynchlands Crescent. He reminds me of rainy paper rounds, unequal rugby tackling partners, Folly Stores, Pierre de Victiore, the Wic, the Wreck, Long Acres, Farley’s House Crew, bike monging, cat red Ford escorts, for sale sign tackling, Star Trek, massive leather jackets, 20/20, bear hugging, ski holidays and so much more.
    Growing up I used to be able to see Rob’s house from my bedroom window, we’d walk to school together when I wasn’t late. I can’t believe how tragic life can be. Rob was one of the most modest people I ever had the pleasure of knowing and I think he found much pleasure and amusement in talking down the many achievements and milestones in his life. He didn’t want to be treated any differently, even though he had achieved so much more than your average 29 year old. Whenever I have difficult decisions to make in the future I’ll always think of what Robbie would have done, his integrity and compassion shine as examples to us all.

    I’ll miss you forever big man

    Paul

     
    

    Paul Glanville

    March 18th, 2009 at 4:54 pmpermalink

61. I am Make your Mark ambassador, like Rob was. I met him once during enterprise week when a short film that had been done of entrepeneurs was shown in the FACT cinema in Liverpool. I sat next to Rob and we had a giggle when our parts of the film came up. the link to it is below - it still makes me laugh now especially the bit when everyone opens their fortune cookies!

    http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&VideoID=5127927

    Sincere condolences to his friends and family, I thought he seemed like a really good bloke. x

     
    

    Jane Hampson

    March 18th, 2009 at 7:09 pmpermalink

62. I’ll always remember Rob - From the hours that we spent in his kitchen developing business plans to the beautiful chocolate milkshakes he introduced me to on Bold Street.

    In the first few months of setting up EvoEnergy, both Rob and Jason taught me so much. We’d talk for hours about how to penetrate markets, how they grew dolphin over the years and how to develop the foundations for a successfull business. Robs business acumen was incredible and he was a true entepreneur - He achieved so much, so quickly and it could have been so much more.

    My favourite memories: Jason and Rob cutting the Dolphin Birthday cake in the Tavern, how happy Rob was after talking to Gordon at no.10 and Rob telling me off for not being prepared enough when trying to organise a meeting with the bank manager.

    My thoughts are with Jason, Em and the rest of Robs family.

     
    

    Kevin Hard

    March 19th, 2009 at 1:05 ampermalink

63. What do i write in a small white box, How do you even start to come up with the words to write how you feel?????

    Rob its quite clear you were an amazing young man thats had a big impacted to many people.

    And like many im honored to of know you, You were truly a one of a kind and will be missed by alot of people.

    To Emma and the family I am truely sorry to hear about your loss of Robbie.

    You know Rob i still think of you as little boy i met back at Oakwood School, Lol Robbie the goal keeper and what and dam fine keeer you were.

    But most Important you were a friend to us all.

    Rest in peace mate

    Glenn

     
    

    Glenn Bolding

    March 20th, 2009 at 5:26 pmpermalink

64. I have sat at my keyboard many times over the last 2 weeks trying to find the words to do Rob’s memory justice but somehow, no matter what I write, it still doesn’t quite seem enough.

    Rob was many things to many people: an amazing boss, an inspirational entrepreneur, a committed teammate, the list goes on, but to me and although I have been fortunate enough to see him in many of these situations, he was first and foremost my friend.

    I first met Rob when we were 4 years old on my first day of Oakwood JMI and we have been solid friends ever since. In trying to recall some of the memories we shared, it’s always the silly little things that you remember first like trying to dig tunnels to each other’s back gardens when we were 6 or 7. I think we’d told Elham that we were trying to get to Australia but the real plan was to have tunnels into each other’s back gardens so we could meet up when we weren’t allowed out to play. I can’t remember whether we’d watched the Great Escape or something but, absolutely convinced the plan was foolproof, Rob and I spent many hours digging (with plastic beach buckets and spades) behind the pond in his back garden and I think the end result was a hole about a foot deep. In our minds this equated to about half of the job done and although this was the extent of our efforts with the tunneling project at the time, due to the many distractions of being 7 years old, Rob’s desire and ambition to achieve the sometimes seemingly impossible had always been part of his make-up.

    This ambition and Rob’s subsequent achievements, even in his earlier years, were fairly awe- inspiring. Whilst on his way to becoming the entrepreneur we all know, Rob was always someone who tried to excel in everything he did and the signs of the man he’d become were there for all to see.
    Whether it was his 2 or 3 morning paper rounds followed by his shift setting up the market stalls in town, to working 60 hours a week at Pierre Victoire whilst studying for his A-levels full-time, Rob’s drive and commitment to success were ever present.
    At the time, being 16/17, we thought he was mad and were constantly trying to persuade him to skip work to come out with us but he had a plan, stuck to his guns and it wasn’t too much of a surprise to me when I went round to his house one weekend and he was sitting figuring out his new investment, a piece of e-commerce software that would allow him to take payments over the internet.
    Personally I thought he was crazy spending all that money on software (bearing in mind it wasn’t even a game!) when he could have bought any number of better things like mountain bikes or new trainers but he clearly knew what he was doing and this investment I believe became the first step on the long road to his and Jason’s amazing business achievements.

    I couldn’t be up here talking about Rob without mentioning sport. Sport was a big part of Rob’s life from a young age and will always be one of the things I remember about him most. Just to give you a snapshot, some of the things that stick in my mind are of him breaking the county shot putt record whilst competing 2 or 3 years above his age group, playing basketball for the South East of England and being the most unstoppable goalkeeper, Oakwood JMI, 18th St Albans Cub scouts or St Albans City Youth has ever seen! Of course this all pales in comparison to Rob, Matt Scaysbrook and I winning the primary schools county short tennis championship and having our picture in the paper although I’m sure he might have disagreed with me there!

    Having been Rob’s friend for such a long time, I’ve got to know his mum, dad and sister very well, even going on holiday with them in the past and I know how much he loved them and how truly proud they were of him.
    I fondly remember a two year period 10 years or so ago whilst the business was starting to take off when Rob dropped out of University and went and got a job at a web design company to further his technical knowledge. Once Elham found out, she was so worried. She used to call to speak to my Mum, I think secretly hoping that I would answer the phone so she could question me on what he was doing, how things were going with the business, why he’d left University. I think it took him a little while to win her round and even after they’d got their own premises, she had her concerns but I think the meetings with Richard Branson and the Prime Minister may have just swung it.

    Rob was a truly amazing person. He was always calm, always considerate, always smiling.
    I will treasure the memories I have of him and like I said at the beginning, it’s the silly little things that stay with you - from early childhood through to the more recent things like sharing a room in Whistler on our first big snowboarding trip and that dreaded drive back to Geneva airport from Chamonix last February in the pouring rain when we realized that despite what you’d achieved with Dolphin, you still didn’t know your left from right!

    Rob achieved more in his short time with us than many of us can hope to achieve in several lifetimes and it is an honour to call myself one of his friends.

    To finish, I would like read a quick quote left on Rob’s tribute from another one of our friends, Chris Fenn:

    “When we were boarding he would always be the one to take that bit of extra time drinking his coffee, telling Farley and I to just hold on a second, stop rushing everyone….and then as soon as you got to the top of the mountain he would be the person shouting at you to get out of his way as he zoomed past.”

    It’s incredible to think what you meant to people Rob. Our memories are the best legacy you left.

     
    

    Alex Farley

    March 21st, 2009 at 5:26 ampermalink

65. I miss you so much

     
    

    pete williams

    March 26th, 2009 at 12:48 ampermalink

66. I never thought I would bring Rob into the world teach him the tools to deal with life and to see him turned out to the end . I must say that I am proud of the man he become and proud of the friends that he made, and how they thought of him.

    Goodbye big man, many love you but no one more then myself.

    Dad.

     
    

    pete williams

    March 28th, 2009 at 1:43 ampermalink